Monday, December 29, 2008

Rachel sums up life in our house!


When we were decorating the Christmas tree, the kids were all so excited. They would hang ornaments as quickly as they could and come back for another one. It the middle of this schuffle, Rachel spoke up and said, "We're just elves, we're just elves, we're just CRAZY elves!"

Isabel and the Christmas Party


We were at the Squadron Children's Christmas party sitting around talking. I was sitting next to a woman named Kat who is a navigator in the squadron. Isabel walked up to us with a very cute smile on her face. She looked at Kat and said, "My daddy has a penis!" Kat did not miss a beat in saying, "Yes, but I have boobies!" Isabel was so tickled by her responce!

What Tricare did for us!

I was really curious just how much James' emergency was going to cost. Nothing to us because Tricare Prime pays 100% of emergency services. Here's the rundown.

Ambulance ride to Heber Springs Hospital: $660
Emergency room visit at Baptist Hospital- Heber Springs: $4,899.20
(This included a $2,100 CT scan, $1,000 to the lab and $700 in X-rays)
Helicopter Med-flight: $8,438.50
Children's Hospital Emergency Room: $1406.06

For a grand total of: $15,403.76 which is, of course, priceless to us!

Praise God for great insurance coverage!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

-Update-

This is James, blogging once again. I'm doing fine and by the grace of God, my wound has been reduced to a small knot. Today we sledded on the first ice of the season. We all had loads of fun and drank hot cocoa afterwards. I'm loving that it's finally colling off. I made a barometer yesterday and will be recording the air pressure for the next week or so. Riley is doing wonderfully and is now obeying basic commands. Altogether, life is going great

Friday, November 7, 2008

James- back to the ER

James woke up Wednesday morning with a fever and was vomiting. The base clinic sent us back to Children's ER so they could assess the situation. After neurological testing and checking his wound, they decided he had a virus. Poor James, a virus on top of his head injury! He's doing very well now and is gaining a little energy. Praise be to God!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

James' Accident- a miracle right before our eyes

We had been trying to go camping since Labor Day weekend. A hurricane hit the US coast that weekend so Nate had to work organizing evacuation and relief flights. We planned another camping trip for two weeks later, and the same thing happened- another hurricane hit the US coast and Nate had to work. Then Ashley had soccer games most weekends and the next time we could go camping was the first weekend in November. So there we were on Nov. 1 enjoying the lake. The weather was warm, and James had been so excited- for months- to have fun on our friends jet ski. Nate took Marc out on a jet ski with him and James was on the other jet ski by himself. I was on shore with all the girls and our friends Bobbie and Bill.

James was driving around the lake nicely and doing 360 degree turns when Nate and Marc came over to see if he wanted to explore another part of the lake. Nate and Marc travelled farther than they had anticipated making their turn and James came out of his turns heading straight for them. James had sprayed water on his face and was getting ready to wipe his face when the impact took place so James did not see them coming. Nate avoided the direct head on hit and hit slightly to the side. The hit caused Nate's jet ski to go on top of the side of James' jet ski. He grazed James' head with the side of his jet ski on his way by. James sat in the seat for several seconds before he slithered head first into the lake where he floated face down in the water. Nate got his jet ski stopped and swam to James. Nate figures James went without breathing for about 30 seconds. Nate got to James, rolled him over and James flailed a little and started breathing. Nate asked him if he could hear him and James did not respond. Nate then said, "If you can hear me, raise your arms." James raised his arms. Nate then got James over to the jet ski where Marc was waiting for them. Nate got James on the jet ski without tipping over. James could follow commands and could help a little in the process. James slumped over Marc for the ride back to shore.

On the shore we heard the impact. We then started to try to figure out what was going on. We saw James fall off his jet ski, but we couldn't figure out much else. They were too far away to see who was doing what. We kept watching and were relieved when we heard the jet ski engine start. Nate really took off, and it was then that we knew something was wrong. Nate was heading back to shore as quickly as he could. James got off the jet ski on his own, and we layed him down on the boat ramp where Nate took off his shirt to apply pressure to the gash on James' head. Fearing a neck or spinal injury, we kept James calm and called for an ambulance. It was only a few minutes until EMT's started to arrive. The accident took place around 4pm and James was in the ambulance about 4:15. The hospital was only about 10 minutes away. James asked, "What happened?" many times. His second frequent question was, "How long was I unconsious?" I rode in the ambulance with James. Nate and Marc were not hurt at all. Marc stayed with the girls, Bobbie and Bill. Nate went back to our camp, got our car and met me and James at the hospital.

The Heber Springs Hospital ordered a CT Scan right away. It took a little while to get checked in then James was whisked away for the scan. I started calling friends who I knew would pray for James and asking them to pray for him. I knew that prayer was the only way we would make it through. When James came back from the scan, his bleeding from the gash in his head had increased. He was in the C-spine brace so they couldn't get to the laceration to apply pressure directly. They stuffed his brace with gauze. About 6:15 the Dr. was able to access the CT scan readings and know that James neck and spine were OK. The Dr. came in to remove James from the board he had been velcroed to. That is when the extent of the bleeding was realized. The bed was soaked down to the middle of James' back. The blood was 1/4 inch thick in places. The Dr. was noticable alarmed by the amount of blood and called for the nurses to find transport to a bigger hospital for James. We figure there was at least a pint of blood lost at that point. The Dr. had noticed a scalpal hematoma on the CT scan and asked us to which hospital in Little Rock did we want him sent. We told them Children's Hospital.

The ambulance was called out on a run and the Dr. did not hesitate to start looking for a helicopter. Both Children's Hospital "Angel" helicopters were out so they searched for another one. Meanwhile, James was bleeding through his bandages and his blood pressure was dropping (95/45). He was so pale. I knew that if we could get him to Children's Hospital that he would be OK. God continued to show his love through wonderful friends who prayed for James and offered to help in any way they could. The Dr. thought that James would probably need surgery to relieve the hematoma. It was under his scalp and did not pose any danger to his brain. We were so relieved but knew that James would need more medical care to make everything alright. All the paperwork I signed at the Heber Springs Hospital was for transport and surgery. We were told that there was a good chance James would be taken into surgery shortly after arriving at Children's. I really wanted James to see some friendly faces before he went to surgery if he was going to need an operation. So we called on several dear friends who gave up their Saturday night to be with James when he arrived at the hospital.

The Med-Flight helicopter took off about 7:50. It was a very small copter so I was not able to ride with James. That really upset me at first, but God gave me the peace that passes all understanding. Nate had gone back to the camp to tell the kids and Bobbie and Bill that we would be heading to Little Rock. We knew that the other five children would be in great hands with Bobbie and Bill which freed up Nate and I to focus on James. Nate picked me up as soon as the helicopter took off and we headed for Children's Hospital.

It took us about 70 minutes to make the trip. God's presence could be felt in our car, and I knew He was also with James. Our dear friends put James on several prayer chains and by this time, news had spread quickly and many people were praying for James. There was an explosion of prayer for safety and healing for our James. Nate and I had a chance to talk about what had happened and this time helped us both tremendously. Friends were at the hospital waiting for James to arrive. God was directing our paths and dear friends were following God's call- and our requests. James would not be at the new hospital alone and tons of people were praying for him. His teacher at Community Bible Study called his class and asked the kids to pray with a parent.

We arrived at Children's Hospital and were greeted by dear friends whom we had asked to be there so James would not be alone when he arrived. The Drs. at Children's were very upbeat about James' condition and were working quickly to take care of him. When we got into James' room I could hardly believe how good he looked. I put a pale, listless young man on a helicopter and now he was sitting up talking and smiling while the Dr. cleaned his gash. I was so amazed by the sight. My boy really was going to be OK. God had heard our prayers, and he had answered them. A miracle was happening right before my eyes! What a mighty God we serve! I was astounded. He looked nothing like he looked before he went in the helicopter.

He was given a pain killer and a vaso-constrictor and they did wonders for him. God was guiding the hands and thoughts of the Drs. The attending physician had gotten a staple gun from an operating room so they would be able to close up James' head the best way they knew how. The pooled blood creating the hematoma was able to be pushed out the gash because blood clots had not formed. The gash was about 2 1/2 inches long and above James' left ear- above where glasses would sit. God was in the process of healing James! The gash gaped open a lot, but they were able to pull it back together with the staples. It closed up beautifully!

We were so amazed that James could go home that very night! When James heard the good news, he asked if we could still have a camp fire that night. I told him that it was already 9:30pm and it was too late. To which James said, "Well, I guess we spent a couple hours at the other hospital!"

God blessed us so much through healing James. We were in our own beds about midnight that night. James slept in Marc's bed so he could call us if he needed anything. Sunday, James wanted to head back up to our camping spot so we did just that. We took it easy and enjoyed each others company. We had several fires in honor of James! He loves a good bonfire!

God's providence was so evident through this whole situation! Prayer is so powerful! Through this incident, God has taught us so much already and I'm sure we will continue to learn even more! Praise God James is going to be just fine!

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Oh Rachel!

It was one of those typical days when we are trying to load the car, strap in the girlies and not forget anything. Ashley was in thought and not really paying attention to Rachel who was yelling a demand at Ashley. We are really good at ignoring them when they are all talking so sometimes it gets very loud and we don't really notice. We call it survival! Anyway, Rachel was tired of not being heard so she said, "Listen to me now, Ashley! Listen to me or I will fry you like a chicken!" We all burst our laughing. What the heck does "fry you like a chicken" mean? Where did she hear this!? We have had countless laughs over this one!

Riley- the new puppy at the A+12 house!







It was only a matter of time before we got a new puppy! Some friends of ours found Riley and her three litter mates in the woods. They had been abandoned. They took them home, cleaned them up and got them ready to be adopted out. We went over to look at the puppies. You can read that as "pick out a puppy!" We were playing with all 4 when James, who was holding little Miss Riley, said, "I don't care which one you all pick out. This puppy is going home with me." I guess that took care of which puppy we were going to get! We love her so much and are thrilled she is a part of our family!

Monday, July 7, 2008

Back to Genevieve (James)

I've been meaning to post, but Genevieve died...in May. They put her down at 4:00 PM. It was very peaceful. That Saturday, we buried her in the backyard of some of good friends next to their Dog, Max, who had died in October. We gave our respects, and left the site.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Florida Vacation Pictures






The Girlies Turn Four!


Sarah, Rachal and Isabel are so proud to be four years old! They tell just about everyone they come in contact with that they are four! This picture was taken on our family vacation to Pensacola, FL.

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Marc and the SAT 10


Arkasas requires that homeschooled students take the same standardized tests that brick and mortar students take. Marc, who has done 2nd grade work this year in math and language arts, was required to take the 1st grade SAT 10. When I went to pick him up after his testing, the proctor approached me and asked if I was his mother. I said I was, and she proceeded to tell me that Marc is really smart (we knew that).

As she was giving the instructions for the test, she noticed that Marc was writing on his answer sheet. After she begain the test, she went to check on Marc to see what he was doing--maybe doodling or marking random answers. Get this: She said that he had his entire test done and answers bubbled in before she was done reading the directions for the test. She said she checked his test and he hadn't missed a questio!

I wish I would have thought to ask her what he did the rest of the time while others took the test.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Peas in a Pod!


While driving home from a Birthday party last weekend, Ashley and I were having a great time talking with Sarah, Rachel and Isabel! I said, "You girls are so much fun!" Rachel responded, "We're all yours, Mom!" What a cutie!

"boobies" 2 (James)


Last Monday (May 19)at the soccer fields, Isabel spotted a four year old boy running around without a shirt (This is Arkansas) she walked up to the boy and said "you have nice boobies". The stunned a boy replied "I do not!". I must say, it really is funny!

Poor Genevieve- by james

In the fall and winter of last year, Genevieve was suffering from many different things, but she got over it and was back to normal for several months. Then, near the end of April,she develoved problems again. She didn't seem to be breathing right. It persisted and got worse, so we had her x-rayed in the chest. The doctor concluded that she had numerous life-threatening tumors and one lung was appeared to be collapsed, and the other was filling with fluid. Her heart was immensly oversized, too. It should take up about three rib spaces on a dog like her, but it took up five and a half. Currently, she isn't breathing well at all. It is a countdown of her days. When the time comes, we'll bury her with some friends of ours, who had their dog, Max, pass away last year. Ilooked up some bible verses for my mom, and figured there was no harm in posting them here. (NLT- New Living Translation)

Genisis 15:15

As for you, you will die in peace and be burried at a ripe old age (Genevieve is almost nine)

2 Samuel 14:14

All of us must I eventually . Our lives are like water spilled out on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again. But god does not just sweep life away;instead, he devises ways to bring us back when we had been separated from him.

Joshua 23:14

I will soon die , going the way of everything on earth . Deep in your hearts you know that every promise the of the Lord your God has come true. Not a single one has failed!

Ecclesiastes 4:2

And so I concluded that the dead are better off than living.

Revelation 14:13

And I heard a voice from heaven say, "write this down: Blessed are those who died in the Lord from now on. Yes, says the spirit, they are blessed indeed, for they will rest from their hard work; for their good deeds followed them.

Rvelation 21:4

He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever.

Monday, February 18, 2008

Nate

What a handsome guy, and he takes care of kids too! Nate was very supportive of my get away trip to Virginia! He took great care of the kids and the house was clean when I got home. I really thought I'd come home to quite a mess. James confided that they didn't clean until 15 minutes before they came to get me, but I told James that apparently, 15 minutes was enough. I had a wonderful and refreshing time in Virginia. God blessed my time there greatly. I came home with a vision for my life and a renewed focus. My primary mission right now is schooling my children. I have let go of many commitments so I can focus at home. It makes our days so much more pleasant when I'm not trying to get school done so I can do something else. I'm enjoying more down time with the kids and they are thrilled to have my full attention so much more often! God is so good!

Rachel Ann



Rachel, on the other hand, is known for running from pictures. It all depends on her mood!

Sarah Beth




Sarah loves to pose for pictures!

Isabel Marie

Here is Isabel looking so sweet! She really is as sweet as she looks!

Our Sweet Geneveve

Geneveve's health has not been good lately. The vets cannot figure out what is wrong with her. She has wounds on the inside of her back legs that won't heal completely. She had so many tests run last November and December and they still coudn't figure out what was going on. We decided to take her off all her medications because they made her feel yucky and the vets weren't sure they were the right ones. We are going for quality of life and not quantity. She is happy, perky and very loving. We enjoy her every day and are thankful for every day she is with us!

Timber!


We had a tree blow down between our driveway and our neighbor's driveway. It happened the afternoon I was flying back from Virginia. I got away for 5 days and Nate took leave to care for the children. My plane was diverted from Little Rock to Memphis. I did end up getting home that night on a later flight. Nate bought a chain saw on the way to the airport. He was waiting in the airport when our flight was diverted. The Brittish man sitting next to me on the flight summed up the situation very well. "You mean to tell me that your husband has been
alone with six children for five days now, he has had them all inside the airport waiting for you and just found out the flight was diverted AND he has a chain saw in the back of his car!" How is that for summing up the situation! The kids had so much fun "climbing" the tree while it was on the ground. Rachel is pictured taking a break to pose for a picture.

Triple Valentine!

Our girlies were so excited about Valentine's Day this year! They enjoyed giving and receiving Valentine's. Can you tell who is whom in this picture?

James-ism


We were leaving Chick Fil A the other day and James said, "I don't know how Chick Fil A makes any money with all they give a way. I mean all the free drink refills and all the condoms." I about spit my ice tea when I realized that he meant to say condiments. It took me a little while to verbalize to him what I thought he meant. He was so embarassed when he realized what he had said. These kids keep me laughing.

Marc the overstressed first grader!


The other night I asked Marc if he would give Geneveve food and water. He looked at me like he was completely overwhelmed and said, "My life is soo busy right now!" I laughed so hard. God knows when I need a laugh!